Most of us find living life is not easy.
Life is filled with challenges, big and small.
And we are influenced by all sorts of inner and outer forces. Bringing these hidden forces into conscious awareness connects you to your true essence.
Think about how you want things to turn out for yourself in your life.
Are you living with unwanted behaviors, negative traits, or conflicted relationships? Don’t wait for life’s circumstances to create painful growth.
People will do anything, no matter how absurd, in order to avoid facing their own souls. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.
~ Carl Jung
Attractive, successful – and a sex addict.
Thomas* is a well-known local artist. However, he found partial satisfaction in frequent sexual encounters that were becoming increasingly risky and secretive as his double-life took shape.
You see, Thomas grew up in a privileged family with a successful, workaholic father and a moody, addicted mother. Neither parent was getting professional help for the challenges they faced.
Thomas’s mother lashed out frequently in shaming, soul-crushing ways – and his dad was hardly ever at home.
As an adult, Thomas protected himself from being vulnerable and missed many opportunities over the years to experience the fulfillment that comes from risking emotional intimacy.
And then the unthinkable happened.
Thomas’s easy-going persona unraveled when one of his sexual conquests became his stalker, who extorted him financially and threatened his family for two solid years.
Thomas felt trapped and unable to go to the police. He feared his reputation, standing in the community, and career would be ruined.
Each day, Thomas woke up worried about the next crisis – and still being driven by strong sexual cravings. His urges felt like an itch that couldn’t be scratched.
*Name and details changed to protect privacy.
Shame corrodes the very part of us that believes we are capable of change.
~ Brene Brown, I Thought It Was Just Me
Keep remembering who you really are.
As we grow up, we give away chunks of ourselves to keep the imperfect adults around us happy.
By the time we reach adulthood, these behaviors have become well-worn patterns that limit our potential and create unnecessary suffering.
Growing up, we quickly learned to hide certain parts of ourselves:
So, we could feel acceptable,
So, we could avoid feeling shamed,
So, we could avoid being punished.
Some kids hid their anger, some kids hid sadness, some hid fear.
There are no limits to the kinds of things children feel obligated or even forced to hide.
But what we hid as children continues to influence our behaviors, thoughts and feelings long after we are adults.
Until you become conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.
~ Carl Jung
Avoidance is costly
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